Saradwen shared:
>It was very hard having to witness such a display of profound grief. I
>almost thought it would be more appropriate for the family to have said
>their farewells and expressed their grief privately beforehand rather than
>subject the rest of us to such an extreme display of emotion.
Uhhh, maybe this is a cultural thing, but I always thought the
people who attended funerals were there to support the family with their
grief.
The wailing, crying and stuff is the release that leads to the
healing and as a friends, should we not try to lessen the load by sharing?
Or maybe it's just a Jamaican thing... I dunno...
V.
From: Rob Galbraith <valizan@pathcom.com>
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